I’m in Class XI. About three months ago, I become close with a girl in my class. We were having fun texting each other and chatting in class. In the last few weeks, however, another friend of mine had suddenly been spending time with her. I’m not happy because nowadays she spends more time with him than with me. No other girl in the class has been kinder to me than her. What can I do to get her to spend time with me as before?
Each of us has different kinds of friends in each phase of our lives. Some friends are very close and intimate with whom we share all our experiences while some are not as close. It is not healthy to be possessive of our friends. You have to know your boundaries, and respect each one’s interests and feelings. Dependence on one person creates anxiety and hinders the relationship. Widen your circle of friends. Give each one their space. Be open to accepting them as they are. A good friend, when communicated in the right manner and at the right time, will understand your feelings.
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