I’m studying in Std X and had a boyfriend who studied in Std XII. We both were in a relationship for four years. I broke up with him because I got to know that he was cheating on me with another girl and kept me as a second option. After a couple of weeks I learned that the girl had also broken up with him because of the same reason. Now I want him back in my life because I’m incomplete without him. Because of this I’m not able to concentrate on my studies. Please help me.

At the age of 12 you were in a relationship with a boy of 14, the age when children are supposed to play and make friends. Now you are 16 and came to know that he was cheating on you with another girl and that she too “had also broken up with him because of the same reason”. Obviously that boy is immature and selfish, thinking only of his will and pleasure. Give him time to mature and understand his mistakes. Getting him back now in your life may probably cause you more pain and disappointment. In future, if he changes his ways, you may take him back.

 

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