I’m a teenager and have fallen for another teen. At first I thought it was infatuation so I ignored the feelings but after years it slipped out that I loved him. We became friends on Facebook four years ago and I learned that we were neighbours. He went to live in another city for higher education. However, he came back after two years. We talk like best friends but I want to be in a relationship with him. He treats me like his girlfriend but still I don’t receive the feeling of “I’m in a relationship”. What should I do?
Four years ago you became friends with a boy on Facebook and you came to know that you were neighbours. After a break of two years you now talk to each other “like best friends” and he treats you “like his girlfriend”. Being a teenager you should be satisfied with this situation and enjoy the beauty of friendship, rather than worrying about some “feeling” that you are not “in a relationship” with him. If for you this means sharing life together in an exclusive and lifelong relationship, you are running too fast, because this can happen only in marriage. Be patient and enjoy the present situation of friendship, which is the best during the teenage. Come to know, understand and accept each other as you are, respecting and helping each other. At this point of time you cannot take final decisions about your future which is in the hands of God. Relax and be happy.
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