I’m a degree student in a relationship with a boy three years older than me. We live in different cities due to our studies and meet each other only once or twice a year. Both of us take our studies seriously and respect each other’s space. Now it’s been six months and he has not responded to my calls and text messages properly. He makes excuses when I try to talk to him. He doesn’t like conversing on the phone so I don’t call him often but he complains for not calling him again. I’m confused as to how to respond to him. Sometimes I feel he has no more feelings for me and perhaps loves someone else. I thought of moving on but I love him a lot and I’m ready to respect his own time. But I’m growing more anxious now. I need your advice.
You are in a relationship with a boy three years older than you and live in different cities, therefore can “meet each other only once or twice a year”. Six months have passed but he has not responded to your calls properly and “he doesn’t like conversing on the phone”. Besides “he makes excuses when you try to talk to him”. This behaviour could mean that he is busy with his studies and does not want to waste time. This could also mean that his feelings for you have changed and he wants to move on your studies and let him make up his mind about his relationship with you. The day he will send you the message: “I love you so much”, you can understand that your love for each other can grow and reach a proper conclusion in a permanent relationship.
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