My mom and my close friend’s mom are best friends.

My mom and my close friend’s mom are best friends. So they keep exchanging notes on what we boys do all the time. This is annoying. My friend and I have discussed this several times, but I don’t know what to do. They also cross-examine us as if we are lying. Please help us overcome this problem.

I agree that your respective mothers’ behavior can be irritating. It would be good to have a healthy and an open discussion with both the mothers and gain their trust. Seek the help of a trusted adult who can help you out. Do not worry too much; learn to ignore this since you do not have anything to hide or fear. Discuss this with your friend and get his opinions as well; his support is very essential. With an open mind, talk to your mother to understand what her concerns are. If her concerns are genuine, make necessary amends.

 

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